RSS Directories

RSS Directories are websites that aggregate RSS feeds from blogs around the internet.  They are a good place to find new blogs to follow, but for our case they are a good place to get links and traffic.  You can submit your blog’s feed to RSS directories in order to get backlinks to your site and every new post you have published.

By having your feed live on the directories you will also help drive traffic to your site.  Not to mention, you will be even more likely to convert these visitors into RSS subscribers.  That’s a whole lot better than just a simple visit.  Building your number of RSS subscribers should be one of your main objectives as a blogger which is why RSS submission is such a great practice.  You can submit to as many RSS directories as you’d like, but I would suggest as least of handful of popular ones to get the traffic and backlinks started.

Parenting after Divorce

Raising a child is that phase of life which is full of challenges. And, if you have to pull this feat single handed, that is after going through a divorce; it can prove to be all the more difficult. There is little doubt that after divorce, single parenting can wear you out financially, physically and above all, emotionally.
Obviously, it’s not a very rosy picture and you do not get any brownie points for doing it patiently and courageously. But remember that shielding your child from the after effects of divorce is vital.
Tips on parenting after divorce:
• Weather the storm together: We often tend to think that adult matters such as divorce should not be discussed in front of children. But a child is perceptive enough to notice the changes after the divorce. After all, for how long you can ward off his curiousness regarding his dad’s or mom’s whereabouts. Though it is difficult to talk about such problems, yet its best to communicate with your child openly and tell him about the present scenario. This would make him feel less disoriented and he would adapt to the changes well. But reveal only the necessary details and down go on describing the nitty and gritty of it.

• Dealing with overload: After divorce, you are required to deal with your child single handedly. You are bound to be overloaded as parenting is a responsibility that is supposed to be shared by two people. Hence, you end up lagging behind. But don’t go on berating yourself about it and neither let your child make you feel guilty. At the same time, be careful not to promise what you cannot deliver. Moreover, single fathers tend to ignore the emotional requirements of the child. So, make extra efforts to know what your child is going through. Single mothers make the mistake of getting too soapy all the time and smothering their kids with enough attention that could eventually spoil them.

• Handling financial pressures: Make sure that you are upfront about receiving child alimony from your ex. Consult an attorney as soon as possible if you have not done so. A growing child has growing needs which your salary alone may not be able to fulfil. Plan on monthly expenses, check your bank statements regularly and keep tabs on new schemes and investment to keep you afloat. Keep in mind that delaying such issues can hamper your child’s future considerably.